kahwin - - jodoh

i went to my friend's wedding last friday. it was a bit controversial since no one actually knew the groom. and it was so sudden, like tiba2 enganged, few months later, kahwin. well the person herself byklaa kontroversinya but that's not what i want to talk about. dah settle pun and she's someone's wife now, so whatever had happen before, just put it in the past okay.

this married girl, she used to date someone for years. i mean like, 6-7 years? they were high school lovers. everyone knew this couple. and both memang rapat with each others' family. they were close with each others' family tahap yg anak buah makcik pakcik semua laa dah kenal. dah anggap one of the family jugak. to me, that kind of relationship is a serious rship and somehow mesti dah plan for future. but then, they broke up. tak tau la apa problem but they did break up. and now the girl is married to someone else. she invited her ex, and her ex was gentleman enough to come to the wedding reception. to me, he was a true man. lelaki sejati. despite what happen between them, he still came and show support to her. i don't know if it's just me (sbb semua orang cakap audi je fikir camtu), but i saw his eyes and to me, he was trying his best to look happy, but the eyes just couldn't lie. for your information, i am very good in seeing someone's eyes esp if they're trying to look fine, but instead mcm2 dalam otak. so his eyes, mcm nak nangis but he's trying to compose himself. memanglaa dah xde pape and both already move on, tapi tipula if u tak sedih one bit. it was 6-7 years of relationship kot. banyak benda they went thru together.

and what caught my eyes was the fact that her niece and nephew sangat rapat with him, asek berkepit je with him malam tu. and he was so nice to layan those kids. even bawak jalan2, bawak lepak with me and my other friends. siap dukung laa, sbb budak kecik kan majlis2 mcm ni suka merengek laa, nak tido la apa. so comel when i saw him dukung the kid. the kids siap nangis2 when he nak balik. awlolololo... and he was talking with her families, makcik pakcik, her parents. he was indeed very close to her family. well, bukan semua ada hati gagah macam tu. come to an ex wedding, talk to people whom he used to call FAMILY. that's why i said dia LELAKI SEJATI. i bow.

moral of the story, JODOH ITU DAH DITETAPKAN DI TANGAN ALLAH SWT. so it's not about how long you are together, or how close you are with the family that you can be considered as one of them, or how many hardships you went through together, or even how much love, care, time, money you give....kalau dah takde jodoh, maknanya xdela. it might sound bad, sad, unfair... but ALLAH knows better and He only give the best for us. and faith, is what we must hold on to. yakin lah Tuhan dah tetapkan jodoh yang terbaik utk kita.